Guidelines for Conversing with Individuals who Do Not Share Your Opinion.
There are high chances for people to have varying opinions about issues. Even when you read the news, you will find contradicting information that you will disagree with. When you are talking with a person, you are likely to disagree. When you are speaking, you are likely to deliver a message that has more weight. One will be disappointed and regret engaging in a conversation of their ideas are not taken seriously. As long as you are living in current times you will have to engage in more serious conversations. Most people prefer to avoid these conflicting conversations and they prefer to engage in something else that is more satisfying. The change that we desire to bring about in our society can only be realized if we can decide to engage in difficult conversations.
Avoid engaging in competitive conversations where necessary. If you come across people who are arguing about the presidential seat or about abortion, you should stay away from such a debate. These types of discussions are only political. Ensure that you deliberate to discuss things which are useful to you and avoid any argumentative conversation while pushing your partners to do the same too. For you to successfully engage in a difficult conversation, you should take a deep breath first. Allow enough time to the other party so that they can summarize their point. Let them tell you when they are through with putting their point across. As long as you will breathe I before you respond in a conversation, you will find it easy to contribute towards the same.
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